Reality isn’t something you react to.
It’s something you create.
It’s not the job.
Not your boss.
Not your parents.
Not the algorithm.
It’s you.
You shape the lens.
You define what it means.
You decide what the moment becomes.
Most people spend their lives rereading a chapter someone else wrote.
Their choices reflect someone else’s beliefs.
But growth mindset changes that.
When you choose to believe that your skills, identity, and outcomes can change?
You stop reacting.
And you start designing.
You’re not just a character.
You’re the author.
That means:
You can reframe what’s happening to you.
You can choose what happens next.
You can rewrite what’s been true—into what’s possible.
But Yana, what if nothing depends on me?
I tell you that: there’s always something that you can do in the situation you’re in. You’re just not looking for it.
Shift your thinking:
from “Nothing depends on me”
to “What can I do to turn things around?”
Personal responsibility.
That’s what top 1% successful people have. And others don’t.
Try this today:
Look at that situation you feel stuck in.
Instead of asking, “Why is this happening to me?”
Ask: “What can I do to change it?”
Think about yourself. How can you become different? Everything around you will follow.
Stop arguing with the past.
Start building the future.
You already have what you need.
And remember to have a GUT Time ;)
Yana